El libro que ojalá tus padres hubieran leído (y que a tus hijos les encantará que leas)

El libro que ojalá tus padres hubieran leído (y que a tus hijos les encantará que leas)

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  • Create Date:2022-03-14 01:53:14
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
  • Status:finish
  • Author:Philippa Perry
  • ISBN:6070769295
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Summary

En este libro, la reconocida psicoterapeuta británica Philippa Perry nos dice qué es lo que realmente importa y qué tipo de comportamientos debemos evitar en la relación con nuestros hijos, ofreciéndonos pautas para:

• Comprender cómo nuestra propia educación puede afectar la crianza。
• Aceptar que cometemos errores y aprender qué podemos hacer al respecto。
• Romper ciclos y patrones negativos。
• Manejar nuestros propios sentimientos y los de nuestro hijo。
• Entender lo que los diferentes comportamientos comunican。

Lleno de sabios y sanos consejos, este es el libro que todos los padres querrán leer y que todos los hijos desearán que sus padres hayan leído。

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Reviews

Em_AW

*audiobook*This book was stuffed with parenting advice (obviously) but was also pretty enlightening if you're interested in relationships and attachment in general - the parent/child relationship forms the basis of our attachments to everyone so it makes a lot of sense。 I've always felt overwhelmed by the prospect of that responsibility (lol this is not a pregnancy announcement, don't worry) but Philippa Perry does a really good job of offering a flexible blueprint without being preachy。I hated *audiobook*This book was stuffed with parenting advice (obviously) but was also pretty enlightening if you're interested in relationships and attachment in general - the parent/child relationship forms the basis of our attachments to everyone so it makes a lot of sense。 I've always felt overwhelmed by the prospect of that responsibility (lol this is not a pregnancy announcement, don't worry) but Philippa Perry does a really good job of offering a flexible blueprint without being preachy。I hated her baby voices though。。。 。。。more

Lakshmikanth

Incredibly helpful。。 learned so many things。。 including eating chocolate often while pregnancy can help your child, unfortunately my girl friend who was pregnant at the time when I was reading this book couldn't eat a lot of chocolates because of her blood sugar level nevertheless very useful book。。 Incredibly helpful。。 learned so many things。。 including eating chocolate often while pregnancy can help your child, unfortunately my girl friend who was pregnant at the time when I was reading this book couldn't eat a lot of chocolates because of her blood sugar level nevertheless very useful book。。 。。。more

Shahina Halim

A great read。 Very informative。

Armilia Afrani

This book touches the reality of how complicated relationships are。 Between you and your children, you and your parents also you and your own feelings。 But it also simplified and have you focused on what actually matters, your relationship with your loved ones。 I will definitely be reccommending this to everyone!****added to my "books you need to read at least once in your life" list**** This book touches the reality of how complicated relationships are。 Between you and your children, you and your parents also you and your own feelings。 But it also simplified and have you focused on what actually matters, your relationship with your loved ones。 I will definitely be reccommending this to everyone!****added to my "books you need to read at least once in your life" list**** 。。。more

Tim

I wish my parents had read this book, and I am glad I did。 It avoids trite cliches and "quick fixes" and instead dives deeply into the complicated, frustrating, and overwhelming nature of parenting。 I borrowed this from my library but I was so moved by it that I bought a copy to keep。I am very thankful for this book。 I wish my parents had read this book, and I am glad I did。 It avoids trite cliches and "quick fixes" and instead dives deeply into the complicated, frustrating, and overwhelming nature of parenting。 I borrowed this from my library but I was so moved by it that I bought a copy to keep。I am very thankful for this book。 。。。more

poesiechaos

›› 4/5 ✧Habe ich Kinder? Oder plane ich, demnächst Kinder zu bekommen? Oder rechne ich wenigstens überhaupt fest damit, irgendwann in diesem Leben auch nur ein Kind in die Welt zu setzen?Fand ich das Buch trotzdem größtenteils super interessant, nützlich und aufschlussreich?Bin ich jetzt deprimiert, weil gefühlt 90% aller Emotionen, die wir als Erwachsene in bestimmten Situationen empfinden, auf Erfahrungen aus unserer Kindheit, auf welche wir keinerlei Einfluss hatten, zurückführbar sind, und w ›› 4/5 ✧Habe ich Kinder? Oder plane ich, demnächst Kinder zu bekommen? Oder rechne ich wenigstens überhaupt fest damit, irgendwann in diesem Leben auch nur ein Kind in die Welt zu setzen?Fand ich das Buch trotzdem größtenteils super interessant, nützlich und aufschlussreich?Bin ich jetzt deprimiert, weil gefühlt 90% aller Emotionen, die wir als Erwachsene in bestimmten Situationen empfinden, auf Erfahrungen aus unserer Kindheit, auf welche wir keinerlei Einfluss hatten, zurückführbar sind, und wir – ebenso wie all unsere Vorfahren und potenziellen Nachfahren – nun den Rest unseres Lebens dazu verdammt sind, die Fehler unserer Eltern auszubaden? 。。。more

Anfal Alkanderi

كتاب رائع! للشجعان فقط الذين أرادوا التخلص من آثار جروحهم عن طريق تربية جيدة لأبنائهم。

Jessica Zeynel

good, very important points regarding all relationships in life, but very repetitive

Felisha Hernandez

This book was great! After reading this I felt like I had a better understanding of myself as a parent, a person and a wife。 Moving forward it gave me a great understanding of why I parent the way I do, things I want to change and even ways as a wife I can be better。 This is a great read。 I only gave it 4 stars because there were areas that to me are a little too sensitive and easy on my kids where as I hope to raise kids with grit and determination and sometimes you have to be tough on them to This book was great! After reading this I felt like I had a better understanding of myself as a parent, a person and a wife。 Moving forward it gave me a great understanding of why I parent the way I do, things I want to change and even ways as a wife I can be better。 This is a great read。 I only gave it 4 stars because there were areas that to me are a little too sensitive and easy on my kids where as I hope to raise kids with grit and determination and sometimes you have to be tough on them to produce that。 。。。more

Dounia Crivelli

Absolutely great and interesting book。 I loved reading it and seeing how certain aspects may have impacted my relationship with my parents, in positive and negative ways and how aspects may impact my job as I work with children。 I definitely will be reading this again when I’m ready to have kids of my own!

Joan Nehls

My kids are teens so this book was a little too late。 Interesting tactics that I wish I tried when they were little。

Flora

What a great read! You learn as much about how to parent as you do about yourself。 Highly recommend to anyone, parent or not。

Rain

While I believe the advice in this book is pretty important, I find it sad that the bar for parenting is so low that many find Perry's findings to be of some grand discovery。 If you can't view your children as human beings, take their feelings into consideration, be in-tune with their needs, stay open-minded about their perspective, and so on, you need to re-think becoming/currently being a parent。 Essentially, I can see how this book is helpful, but I'm also met with feelings of frustration。The While I believe the advice in this book is pretty important, I find it sad that the bar for parenting is so low that many find Perry's findings to be of some grand discovery。 If you can't view your children as human beings, take their feelings into consideration, be in-tune with their needs, stay open-minded about their perspective, and so on, you need to re-think becoming/currently being a parent。 Essentially, I can see how this book is helpful, but I'm also met with feelings of frustration。The bar is on the floor。 That's all I will say。 。。。more

Hamza Hasan

I like how Philippa articulates what's going on between parents and children。 I like how Philippa articulates what's going on between parents and children。 。。。more

Sami Brown

I don’t know if I’ve just read enough in my lifetime and scrolled thru a million articles and forums with both my kids, but this book did nothing for me。 Tell me something I don’t know。 🙃

Sophie Drt-Pmllr

Closer to 4。5。 Some really useful insights and tips to reflect on your childhood and relationships - even if you don't have kids! It helped me articulate some of my behaviours/feelings, as well as family and sibling dynamics。 Closer to 4。5。 Some really useful insights and tips to reflect on your childhood and relationships - even if you don't have kids! It helped me articulate some of my behaviours/feelings, as well as family and sibling dynamics。 。。。more

NRA

A kind of book that needed to be read by a new parents。 I highly recommend this

ninakrzyzanowska

Wzruszająca i dająca dużo myślenia książka o przebaczaniu i zrozumieniu samego siebie。 Nieważne czy jesteś nastolatkiem, dorosłym z 2 dzieci czy może odpoczywasz na emeryturze - bo ta książka jest dla każdego。 Każdego kto chce zrozumieć siebie i swoje relacje, ale przede wszystkim być lepszym człowiekiem。

Jonathon Tucker

Some really insightful messages on communication and behaviour。

Yasmin A

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Cooper&Son

Thought provoking。

Angie Nicothodes

This book definitely helped me figure out where my parents went wrong but how to mend it and when I have kids to not make those same errors so we can have a better bond!

Adriana

Although some very specific viewpoints of the author do not match my natural parenting style, particularly regarding sleep training, I found this book to be globally useful and am already benefiting from its advice in my relationship with my toddler。

Salsa

Final rate: 4/5I learned SO, so many insights from this book that touched my own childhood and my relationship with my parents。 However, I got bored reading some parts because I cant relate (yet) and things seem more theoretical than what I like it to be。But definitely recomment this for every parents & adults out there!

Laurena Mary

This was a really helpful book - I found myself reflecting on the way I was brought up, the way I brought my children up, and how I might adapt my ideas practically in the way I relate to my granddaughter。 Would recommend。

Romina Pasca

Am rezonat cu aceasta carte, de aceea mi-a placut mult sa o citesc。 Este foarte utila tuturor parintilor, dar mai ales parintilor la inceput de drum。 Avem nevoie de educatie cu blandete in lumea asta。 E greu, dar merita🥰

Megan

When I first started reading this book I felt so connected with the points the psychotherapist author was making。 “Wow, finally a parenting book that I 99% relate to” I thought to myself。 I even bought a physical copy off Amazon and was pushing my husband to read it。That was until the author began preaching about the benefits of co-sleeping。 She said in the book I’d be angry because of the guilt of not doing it, but honestly I’m just angry that she thinks it’s okay to suggest parents practice un When I first started reading this book I felt so connected with the points the psychotherapist author was making。 “Wow, finally a parenting book that I 99% relate to” I thought to myself。 I even bought a physical copy off Amazon and was pushing my husband to read it。That was until the author began preaching about the benefits of co-sleeping。 She said in the book I’d be angry because of the guilt of not doing it, but honestly I’m just angry that she thinks it’s okay to suggest parents practice unsafe sleep with their most precious offspring。 There’s a lot of pretty compelling data out there that indicates co-sleeping increases the risk of SIDS by 90% or more。 No, I don’t want to hear about how you can “safely co-sleep”。 It’s just unsafe。 Period。Parenting is hard。 It makes us vulnerable。 Health practitioners shouldn’t be advocating unsafe practices。 So disappointing because it really did start out great。 。。。more

Deniz

2,5 stars, but I'll be generous。Many previous comments really got it: The book is rather judgemental, has an extremely upper-middle class perspective to parenting, and sometimes dwells too much on the this quite simplistic idea that whatever mistake one makes with their children result from the mistakes that their own parents did while they were a child。My addition to all these is the way that the book is written。 To me it was simply not captivating enough。One still can learn some things from th 2,5 stars, but I'll be generous。Many previous comments really got it: The book is rather judgemental, has an extremely upper-middle class perspective to parenting, and sometimes dwells too much on the this quite simplistic idea that whatever mistake one makes with their children result from the mistakes that their own parents did while they were a child。My addition to all these is the way that the book is written。 To me it was simply not captivating enough。One still can learn some things from this book about emphaty and being a calm person in relationships in general。 Thus all the stars。 But quickly skimming the book may also suffice to get the gist of it。 。。。more

Fatima097

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Putri Kencana

Buku ini menyadarkanku bahwa menjadi orang tua itu cukup sulit。 Jika salah dalam mendidik anak, bisa menimbulkan trauma bagi anak di masa depan💔Kita diajak untuk melihat dari point of view sang anak。 Bagaimana agar anak lebih nyaman dalam mengungkapkan perasaannya, mengajarinya cara mengolah emosi, menerapkan batasan-batasan, yang semua itu nantinya akan berdampak pada hubungan antara anak dan orang tua。 Hal yang perlu diingat saat kita memutuskan untuk mempunyai anak adalah:“You are creating a Buku ini menyadarkanku bahwa menjadi orang tua itu cukup sulit。 Jika salah dalam mendidik anak, bisa menimbulkan trauma bagi anak di masa depan💔Kita diajak untuk melihat dari point of view sang anak。 Bagaimana agar anak lebih nyaman dalam mengungkapkan perasaannya, mengajarinya cara mengolah emosi, menerapkan batasan-batasan, yang semua itu nantinya akan berdampak pada hubungan antara anak dan orang tua。 Hal yang perlu diingat saat kita memutuskan untuk mempunyai anak adalah:“You are creating a person to love, not a work of art。”Jadi, sebisa mungkin kita (sebagai (calon) orang tua) belajar untuk memahami mereka juga❤️🥰 。。。more